Some thoughts on busyness…

One of the most common responses to the question, “How are you?” is, “Busy.” Why is busyness the new normal? Why do we so easily over schedule ourselves?

Laziness: It’s somewhat easier to just say yes to everything that comes along, than to be thoughtful and intentional about how we fill our days.

FOMO: Social media and our global society exposes us to so many more available options with which to fill our time, and we can’t bear to miss out on what others are up to. So we overcommit and stretch ourselves beyond the limit.

Fear of silence: We are so addicted to noise, busyness and distraction, that it’s a foreign and uncomfortable concept to find ourselves with unfilled, unscheduled time and space in our day. Quiet The Mind is a fantastic illustrated guide to the art of silence and meditation (it’s short and sweet, for the busy among you).

Busyness gives us a sense of purpose and significance: “I’m busy, therefore I am”. If our schedule isn’t bursting at the seams, we can find ourselves feeling lost and insignificant.

And we’re transferring this busyness disease to our children. 

We are scheduling their every spare moment of free time with extra curricular activities, play dates and homework. They hardly have a minute to just be kids. To let their creativity develop freely, and unhindered by their schedule. I highly recommend the book Simplicity Parenting for more great thoughts on this.

So let’s be thoughtful about how we fill our days.

Let’s not fear silence, and space, but embrace it, sit with it, and learn from it.

Let’s allow time and space to embrace the present, to be spontaneous, creative, and fully alive.

 This post was originally published on ihearthome.

4 thoughts on “Some thoughts on busyness…

  1. love this so much, am reading “essentialism” (as recommended by you) so totally agree with what you have written. It is something to continually do, keep culling unessential activities. xx

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