I recently went down to the Wairarapa, and visited the gallery of iconic New Zealand potter Paul Melser, who’s been in the trade for over 50 years. His handcrafted pieces reflected the beauty of his natural surroundings, and seeing his pieces in context resonated with my soul. I hadn’t anticipated a shopping experience to be so profound, but it was.
It made me realise that most often when we buy things, we are utterly disconnected from the the source of our purchases, from the craftsman, from their creative process, from their intentions in their work, from the humanity present in each piece. Mindlessly choosing pieces from shops that are drowning in mass produced products that really hold little meaning and value to us. The polar opposite of the experience I had.
I chose pieces that were made with love and care by a true craftsman. I was present, in the moment, aware of my surroundings and of how each piece made sense in that context. The experience steeped each piece with such significance, and now, when I use them, they retain that memory and value. They are both useful and beautiful, and pieces that I’ll keep for a very long time.
We obviously can’t meet the craftsman behind every piece we buy, but I wish there were more opportunities to buy directly from the source; the impact this experience had on me makes me want to hunt them out.
I’d encourage you to seek opportunities to buy direct from the crafter, the maker, the source. Even just going through this experience once will increase your attention and awareness as you make purchases. Buying local and ethical can be more expensive than cheap mass produced imports. But it won’t be more costly in the long run. You’ll tend to think harder about what you buy, and buy less but better. You’ll buy because you really need something, not because you’re having a bad day. You’ll be helping the planet, helping your fellow human beings, helping your own soul to feel less burdened.
And while there’s a lot more to the soul than buying stuff, choosing pieces carefully, thoughtfully and mindfully can tap into a place in the soul, to what makes you come alive.
And that’s the goal. To become more present and mindful with all our actions.